What Would You Do?

So today after work I proceeded to go back inside to my building, as I walk into the door I let it close behind me. A fellow employee, who everybody seems to think is the genius, approaches me and says "hey can't you hold the door for me? I say to him "are you a female" but of course I didn't use that word. later on the day we realize that another employee was not present the same gentleman walks over to me and says such and such is not here and you have to do her work and he proceeds to poke me hard, on my shoulder at which point I stood up and grabbed him by the throat and told him not to touch me ever again was I wrong for that?

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